My grandson and I were talking about this tonight at dinner. He said he felt that way in 5th grade because no one wanted to choose him for their basketball team as he was too small at the time.
I can recall such a time when I was in 4th grade. I was a very quiet, shy kid who was not good at playing outdoor childhood games like Pom Pom Pull Away or Red Rover. I didn’t like those rough games . I enjoyed sitting and reading books or writing poems much more. But in our little country school we had to play these outdoor games and I often felt rejected because I was always the last one to be chosen on a team. No one really wanted someone on their team who couldn’t play very well . So, it was a pretty miserable, lonely year for me because I wanted to be accepted but I wasn’t, just because I wasn’t “good enough”. That often happens in this world, we are rejected or not accepted because we are too small, too fat, too quiet, or just “not good enough”. If we are not accepted we feel we are not worthy, that we have no value.
However, God isn’t that way. “For the LORD does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.” 1 Samuel 16:7b (NKJV)
In Christ, God accepts us just as we are. When I believed and received Jesus many years ago I certainly wasn’t “good enough” to be accepted by God, but in His grace He accepted me in Christ. I was accepted into His family, as His child, never again to have to ever feel unwanted or unworthy. I know I am valuable now because God has accepted me, not for what I can do, but for who I am in Christ.
Praise God for His glorious grace by which He received me with approval in Christ.
Ephesians 1:6 says: to the praise of the glory of His grace, by which He made us accepted in the Beloved.
Do you feel accepted by God or do you think you need to work on “being better” first?
What does Ephesians 1:6 mean to you as a Believer in Christ?